Tips for identifying real people in here

Hello everyone, I'm new here but as soon as joined I noticed right away that most profiles that post here seem to be fake.

I'm creating this thread in order for everyone to share their tips of identifying and picking out the real people from the fakes.
I am having a hard time .....people talk a good game until you ask for video chat lol
 
I recognize how hypocritical this probably sounds coming from a non-verified account, but do the research before handing anything out.

We try to not share any personal details what-so-ever until we're comfortable with the party on the other end. From my experience, the biggest sign is when the other party is being pushy or aggressive in asking for details.

I also recognize how much easier life would be if we did get verified; we just try to keep such little online presence as possible that even putting a video of ourselves with no faces feels like too much.

So yeah, take your time, be on the lookout for aggressive fake account, and if you're comfortable with it, get verified.
 
Hello everyone, I'm new here but as soon as joined I noticed right away that most profiles that post here seem to be fake.

I'm creating this thread in order for everyone to share their tips of identifying and picking out the real people from the fakes.
There's more than one definition/assessment of fake.

No disrespect toward you or anyone else 1) Discipline yourself to not get caught up in cybersex. 2) Real people talk to real people who EXCHANGE interests, desires, and parameters like real people and it will almost seem like across a table over coffee. Have you ever been in a busy shopping area, restaurant, or bar and walked up to a couple and said "You've got great tits and a nice ass, will you suck my cum out of her after I let one go in her?" Of the women you have been intimate with in real life, how many did you call a slut, whore or a cunt on the first meeting? Even the street ****** would cut you for approaching them like that!

EVERYONE in here has a sexual interest, but NOBODY is fucking people that they don't feel comfortable with.

AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, WOULD YOU MUTHA FUCKAS KNOCK OFF THE "I'M A BBC, HMU." BULLSHIT?!?!? It's embarrassing and makes it harder on everybody else. Stop being so damn lazy and send a DM! True you cut yourself out of the 'competition' but the rest of us have to articulate to prove we aren't that shallow!
 
Getting verified doesn't mean anything.

Numerous onlyfans bots have gotten themselves verified.

And the insistence that verification isn't open to absolutely everyone seems silly and immature if the truth be told. It would help weed out the chronic masturbators from those who are really in the lifestyle and so on.

That said, look out for internet photos, and also "female" profiles who obsess with anal sex are probably g@y guys and trannies.
 
I think we are not discussing the elephant in the room. For a moment keep aside the real people and scammers. As many of you have mentioned, a lot of people have vanished once you mentioned video calling. So it's interesting why all of this happens, like what goes on psychologically in this people, if they aren't scammers, why do they tend to pretend to be bulls, couples or females. Also I've seen many of such profiles write huge essays on how great black men are in comparison to white men but they barely post any media and never anything original... So it's a dilemma to me on what exactly are they trying to achieve, I have a few hypotheses but it could be all of them, some of them, some of them for the specific individual or non at all.
 
That's a good point though some people may find workarounds after getting verified too.

Also I'm learning more about this site and it's forums, for an example, your media isn't visible, why is that so?
People getting around verification is beside the point. First step for you is verification. As for my media,,,,,as per my settings only verified members that I follow have access to it. :qos:
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It varies.

Video chat if you actually are looking to meet.

If your just looking around..... clear face pictures and real peoples photos don't look like the professional porn. Look in the background, are things perfect like a movie set? have you ever seen a night stand in a hotel without a bunch of crap piled on it?

Very few people look like porn models and like I said....... clear faces. The cut and pasted ones you can always tell.

Use your brain. Real life is not picture perfect like a porn shoot.
 
it's funny your right . Get verified first. But I am verified but still have the same issues on here. A lot of couples talk a good game until it's time for a facetime or a real meet up.
Part of the vetting to weed out these wanna bes and posers is to engage them have face to face via video or verified imagery. Something like that. Non verified gets very little attention for the vast majority of us. The cuck fetish runs deep and you have to be diligent to be sure unfortunately.
 
I think we are not discussing the elephant in the room. For a moment keep aside the real people and scammers. As many of you have mentioned, a lot of people have vanished once you mentioned video calling. So it's interesting why all of this happens, like what goes on psychologically in this people, if they aren't scammers, why do they tend to pretend to be bulls, couples or females. Also I've seen many of such profiles write huge essays on how great black men are in comparison to white men but they barely post any media and never anything original... So it's a dilemma to me on what exactly are they trying to achieve, I have a few hypotheses but it could be all of them, some of them, some of them for the specific individual or non at all.
Living a fantatsy life of what their psyche tells them they want.
 
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