Tips for first time Anal Sex

[DEKAPITATOR]

I want to have Anal sex with my wife for the first time.
1- I would like any tips for me not to hurt her.
2- Is lubricant a must?
3- What the best position for the first time?
4- Should she take an enema first(is it necessary)?

Thanks people.

 

[Big P13]

Check here.

http://board.freeones.com/showthread.php?t=114115

 

[Rhino205]

My wife enjoys it...so much so its pretty much part of our love making routine...

Having said that...and having been with other in the past...the most important word of advise I can offer you is...patience...

Take your time....work up to it...build up to it....make an event of it...

Lube is important (but don't use too much or it will be like trying to shove a marshmallow into a piggy-bank).

Take your time...let her guide and set the pace....and understand she may be uncomfortable at first...but that will pass....

And don't get too excited to fast ...work up to it nice and slow...let her body respond.... then... you're in pleasuresville.

Good luck man! (drop me a private message if you have more questions).

 

[Supafly]

Your partner could go for an enema the morning of your day of play.

It really helps get things out of the way you do not want to see during that sex sessions ^^

 

[DOA82]

My wife enjoys it...so much so its pretty much part of our love making routine...

Having said that...and having been with other in the past...the most important word of advise I can offer you is...patience...

Take your time....work up to it...build up to it....make an event of it...

Lube is important (but don't use too much or it will be like trying to shove a marshmallow into a piggy-bank).

Take your time...let her guide and set the pace....and understand she may be uncomfortable at first...but that will pass....

And don't get too excited to fast ...work up to it nice and slow...let her body respond.... then... you're in pleasuresville.

Good luck man! (drop me a private message if you have more questions).

After 3 years, you really think he cares?

 

[Facetious]

Save your tip the hassle . . :hatsoff:

 

[Rhino205]

er...........yes....I see....


3 years....











I'm an ass.

 

[busty_kiki]

thanks for sharing

 

[DOA82]

thanks for sharing

Sharing what? Why is that all you ever say?

 

[~~whimsy~~]

Shove it in and hope for hemorrhaging to provide an all natural lube.

 

[hk727]

Silicon based lube rocks!

 

[lechepicha]

Shove it in and hope for hemorrhaging to provide an all natural lube.

:thumbsup: POTW :bowdown:

rep to you, of course :hatsoff:

 

[smoggy_ste]

Just go for it

 

[BlueBalls]

Don't forget the reach around, that's very important. Tug him gently, try to maximise the pleasure you're both feeling.

 

[lurkingdirk]

I wonder if the OP ever got into that booty?

If he didn't, Stan should step in and let him get lucky. It's a public service.

 

[JulianNorth]

I'd say doggy offers the lady the most comfort. Make sure her asshole is pointing directly towards your cock so that you can slide in, dick pointing straight down her asshole. This makes sure you're causing her asshole to stretch as little as pos.

Re Lube, I'd say it's 100% essential. Despite all these new specially marketed lubes becoming available, I find good old baby oil does the trick best. Use quite a lot.

If you've never fingered her anally or used a vibrator on her ass, I suggest getting one of those really small vibrators (I think they are called bullets) and using that on her so she becomes familiar with anal penetration. It's fun to do this while you have vaginal sex.

Last but not least, the dude above was right. Patience is key. If she's not done it before I hate to disappoint, but there's no way she's gunna be able to take it in the ass like Gauge or Taylor Rain for the first few times. You got to put it in slow and fuck real slow, it's the only way.

Sorry for the long message, but thats all the info I wish someone had given me before I started having anal sex with my gf. It's turned out to be a big part of our sex life and her life in general as she started shooting porn for a company recently. Fair to say, she's a fucking pro at it now!

Good luck bro, J

 

[DOA82]

I'd say doggy offers the lady the most comfort. Make sure her asshole is pointing directly towards your cock so that you can slide in, dick pointing straight down her asshole. This makes sure you're causing her asshole to stretch as little as pos.

Re Lube, I'd say it's 100% essential. Despite all these new specially marketed lubes becoming available, I find good old baby oil does the trick best. Use quite a lot.

If you've never fingered her anally or used a vibrator on her ass, I suggest getting one of those really small vibrators (I think they are called bullets) and using that on her so she becomes familiar with anal penetration. It's fun to do this while you have vaginal sex.

Last but not least, the dude above was right. Patience is key. If she's not done it before I hate to disappoint, but there's no way she's gunna be able to take it in the ass like Gauge or Taylor Rain for the first few times. You got to put it in slow and fuck real slow, it's the only way.

Sorry for the long message, but thats all the info I wish someone had given me before I started having anal sex with my gf. It's turned out to be a big part of our sex life and her life in general as she started shooting porn for a company recently. Fair to say, she's a fucking pro at it now!

Good luck bro, J

Wait, your gf does porn? Shit, I never knew, despite the multiple threads and fact you cant seem to post without mentioning it!

 

[Bloodshot Scott]

Sharing what? Why is that all you ever say?

:rofl2: No shit huh

 

[DOA82]

:rofl2: No shit huh

No joke, shes had a bunch of posts deleted, cause thats all hey ever said!

 

[PirateKing]

No need for enemas or lube. If you're gonna be riding dirty then you may as well let the blood and feces flow.:thumbsup: