being a british muslim myself, i will be the first to admit that there are bad apples within our tree. However, I think that is more human nature than anything else, surely that occurs everywhere, from gender, race, religion, orientation etc.
Prior to 9/11, I was never subjected to any type of racism. Since 9/11 many of the fanatics become fanatics, not because of what Islam teaches, but becuase of brainwashing campaigns by cold heartless alleged religious people. I say 'alleged' purely because firstly, the Quran is written in arabic. bout 90% of these terror-esque muslims have never actually read the translated version in their own language, and instead go about following blindly to others warped interpretation.
I like to consider myself a law abiding, muslim, who appreciates his culture yet is integrated as part of British society. There are many misconceptions to Islam.
For the people that believe in religion, the Quran was revealed 1600 years ago. This is before, women had rights, whilst female babies were buried alive in Arabia, having slaves and concubines was acceptable throughout the planet. In short, the world 1600 years ago was not a human rights society. Islam actually made it illegal to have slaves, made it illegal to kill females and gave females a right to vote.
Furthermore, any one that has read the Quran will appreciate that it teaches peace, tolerance and love for all. It only EVER justifies violence in self defence. A quote which is repeated many times in the Quran "he who kills another human being, is the enemy of mankind". The alleged muslims who rely on the 'sword verse' use it way out of context as they have not fully read that chapter of the Quran. The infamous sword verse was a verse revealed during a war. I dont see this any different to how our 'great' western countries justify wars on so many nations.
The issue regarding 'the veil', is not an islamic issue, its a pre-islamic athiest arabia issue. Prior to Islam, the veil was forced upon women because pre the prophet time, women were treated as second class citizens. For anyone who has read the quran will appreciate, that whenever there is a reference to a male, the word 'female' is directly alongside it. i.e any rule/right that applies to a man, applies to a woman.
Re the knife issue mentioned above. I think my friend may be mistaken to the religion 'sikhism'. This is the first time I have heard of muslim culture where a boy has to wear a knife. I know for certain it is a Sikh tradition (part of the 5 k's). This I guess sums up alot, alot of people, not that its anyones fault, do not know what islam is, some take what they see too literally or start mixing culture with religion.
In short, Islam, when it was revealed introduced many rights in that era and taught peace. Unfortunately, many muslims this era forget the advances the religion made, the education and science which it spread and now take the religion too literally and get irratated when they are constantly provoked.
Unfortunately, every era has a group that are villified - jewish community, black community, now its the muslims turn, granted because of the messed up actions of a few. Im pretty certain, in a 100 years time it will be another group.
peace