PirateKing

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I believe that the mind is a complex thing. The more you start believing in this curse, the more random occurrences seem related. Over a span of 10 years, I'm not surprised that accidents, divorces, and suicides have happened considering it's not uncommon for families to face those same events over that period of time. As for the cursing in your sleep and inner voices, well...that's on you.

Sounds like the grief over losing your sister is causing delusions to manifest. Get some rest and talk to someone.
 

Jon S.

Banned
Exactly! It's just like someone who believes in psychics remembers the 3 things out of 100 that the "psychic" hit on and forgets the 97 things that they were dead wrong about. Just like with curses. Over a long period of time, everyone has their ups and downs in life. If you believe in curses, you will just concentrate on the bad and assume you are in fact cursed. It does not make it so though.
 
I believe that the mind is a complex thing. The more you start believing in this curse, the more random occurrences seem related. Over a span of 10 years, I'm not surprised that accidents, divorces, and suicides have happened considering it's not uncommon for families to face those same events over that period of time. As for the cursing in your sleep and inner voices, well...that's on you.

Sounds like the grief over losing your sister is causing delusions to manifest. Get some rest and talk to someone.

Bear in mind as he's Indian the myth of curses play a much stronger role than they would in the west (ie people of european descent). There is always talk of black magic and bad luck which is why there are so many asian spiritual healers who list being able to rid black magic as one of their main attributes. I do believe some people have more misfortune than others (me included) but I put that down to simply life being unfair and it's not as if good incidents and bad incidents are evenly distributed between every individual/family. I would like to be able to think that all the misfortune I've had is because of a curse that I need to try and lift rather than face the harsh reality that it's simply because life's an unfair bitch and sometimes there is nothing you can do about events that are gonna negatively affect you.
 
No. Once again, it' a feeble attempt by man to gain "control" over things he has no control over. :2 cents:
 

PirateKing

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Bear in mind as he's Indian the myth of curses play a much stronger role than they would in the west (ie people of european descent). There is always talk of black magic and bad luck which is why there are so many asian spiritual healers who list being able to rid black magic as one of their main attributes. I do believe some people have more misfortune than others (me included) but I put that down to simply life being unfair and it's not as if good incidents and bad incidents are evenly distributed between every individual/family. I would like to be able to think that all the misfortune I've had is because of a curse that I need to try and lift rather than face the harsh reality that it's simply because life's an unfair bitch and sometimes there is nothing you can do about events that are gonna negatively affect you.
Understandable, but it's hard to be optimistic when you're convinced that something supernatural is plaguing you. If seeing a spiritual healer and having him "dispel the curse" brings the man peace of mind, then I recommend it.
 
Understandable, but it's hard to be optimistic when you're convinced that something supernatural is plaguing you. If seeing a spiritual healer and having him "dispel the curse" brings the man peace of mind, then I recommend it.

Too many of them are crooks, they leave cards in my store not only offering to repel curses (using powerful centuries old talismans) but help win money, pass exams, cure illness and bring back wives/girlfriends that have left you. Some people badly suffer from these various ailments and they will only get their hopes off then quashed by going to these mavericks. Mind you in my darkest days I've thought of giving it a shot as you feel you've got nothing left to lose.
 

Jon S.

Banned
Do I believe in curses? Of course I do!

Fuck, dick, bitch, cock sucker, mother fucker, asshole, dickhead, son of a bitch, shithead, ass, cock, pussy, cunt, etc. are most DEFINITELY words in the English language!
 

John_8581

FreeOnes Lifetime Member
My sister passed away five days ago....
My condolences. I'm really sorry for your loss. I hope you and the rest of your family can manage and cope with her loss. If I can suggest something? Rather than taking the negative way or path, like do curses exist? Try thinking of just the opposite. Think of the times in your life that your sister was there for you. A time you laughed, a time you smiled on account of her doing something really nice. Keep the "happy times" that you spent with her in your thoughts and actions. Peace and serenity to you. God bless.
 

bahodeme

Closed Account
Akhilpuri,
First my sincere condolences on your loss. Anger, sadness, why did this happen, are all normal feelings when you lose a loved one or with any tragedy. And when you are around other people, you probaly will not have the same feelings as you do alone because your mind is preoccupied with other thoughts. I advice as given by other members is talk to your spiritual advisor and/or grief counselor. As far as curses, for me, unless they are adding 'extra spices' to your food or water then it's just lip service. Now Karma well....:)
 

Ace Bandage

The one and only.
The curse of the Billy Goat, FTW. :facepalm:

(or maybe we just suck...consistently)
 
Feeling like there is a curse on my family.

My Sister passed away five days ago. For the last two days I am pretty certain i have been possessed by an evil spirit that is hurling abuses whenever anyone takes my sisters name. Last night i couldn't sleep coz i was cursing non stop. Its ridiculous because whenever i see my sisters photograph my mind starts speaking on its own like a madman and i cant seem to control it. This also happened during my grandfathers death.

There have been divorces, accidents, suicides, deaths and turmoil for the last ten years now and god knows when this is going to stop. I truly feel I need to get a priest / pandit to do some puja to ward off an evil eye i think has been cast by an unforgiving soul that lives next door, an aunt, who has blamed my family for causing a fire in the barn that caused the death of my two distant cousins who went in to save the cattle getting burnt inside. We lived as a joint family once but separated later on so the house is still one but divided by a partition. I guess it was but natural to point fingers at us...

Any way I am just freaked out right now and fucking scared to say the least about this voice in my head. I haven't done any hard drugs in the last two years just in case you're wondering and am completely normal while interacting with other people . Its only when im alone.

Sorry to hear about you sister.It's just a mental state that's yet not out of the trauma of someone's loss.It would eventually go away with time.You are in grief right now, so when you are alone, the thoughts of your sister and things related to her either overwhelm you conscious or subconscious and start echoing in your mind.

You said you are normal while interacting with people, that's because, your mind gets off those sad thoughts for those moments.So as much as possible, try to be in company of someone and try to keep yourself occupied.You may carry on with your rituals, but the main thing you should so is, keep yourself occupied all the time and don't be alone.

Wish you the best.
 
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